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I'd never dabbled in casual sex until Tinder.

I was a serial monogamist, moving from one long-term relationship to the. I had friends who'd indulged in one-night stands and was probably guilty of judging them a little, of slut-shaming.

I saw the negatives — addkctive merry-go-round of hook-ups and guys never calling. Then, in Februarymy partner dumped me. We'd only been together eight months but I was serious, deeply in love, and seven months of celibacy followed.

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I met him at a pub first — liquid courage — and knew the second I saw him that my heart wasn't in addicyive. The connection wasn't there for me.

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Not a great start. But Tinder is addictive. You find yourself browsing and swiping and playing on. The possibilities pile up. I'm ashamed to say it but I sometimes went on gor or four dates a week.

It could be to a bar around the corner, or somewhere fabulous — Berner's Tavern, the Chiltern Firehouse. Most of the guys I met were looking for sex, rarely were they after a relationship.

With Tinder, I discovered what it could be to have sex then walk Fknd without a backward glance. That was liberating. Sex didn't have to be wrapped up with commitment, and "will he? It could just be fun. Sometimes Find Sex Dates - looking for that addictive had Datfs in common with the guy but there was a sexual spark.

In "real life", he was the ultimate knob. He didn't fit with my politics, my views, I'd never have introduced him to my friends. In bed, though, he htat passionate, eager, energetic. Horny girls in Gaithersburg Maryland a while, we'd hook up every six weeks. But there were a lot of negatives. It could feel … seedy. Where do you go for sex? I didn't feel comfortable taking someone back to my place, as he'd then know where I lived, and I live.

If we went back to his, I'd have no idea what to expect.

With "Aldgate East", we had to local single cougars through a pub to Se to the bedroom and I swear there was a train going through the lounge. You're trusting people you barely know. After a few dates with "Manchester", I agreed to visit his hotel room next time he was in London. I'd always been diligent about practising safe sex, but he had trouble getting in the mood with the condoms and went against my wishes at the last moment.

The next morning I wrote him an angry text.

I've never felt so violated. Most often, though, I didn't have sex at all.

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I generally left home open to the possibility but found, when my date showed up, that I didn't want to see him again, let alone see him naked. There was no spark, or he was dull or gross or just too Find Sex Dates - looking for that addictive.

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The sex was over in seconds — a massive anticlimax after such a build-up.

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Escort 707 never saw each other. If we'd met another way, that could have been a blip, an awkward beginning. On Tinder everything's disposable, there's always more, you move on fast. You start browsing again, he starts browsing — and you can see when anyone was last on it.

If five days pass with no messaging between you, it's history.

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At times, Tinder seemed less like fun, more like a gruelling trek across an arid desert of small talk and apathetic texting. More than once, I deleted the app, but always came back to it. It was more addictive than gambling. I never dreamed I'd end up dating 57 men in less than a year. I'm off it. Four months ago, I met a man — "Hackney Boy" — through Tinder and at first, I carried on seeing him and dating.

After a while, he wanted to get more. He's older than me and didn't want to waste time with Tinder any. I had one last fling with "French Guy", then made a decision to stop. What did Tinder give me? I had the chance to live the Sex and the City fantasy. It has made me less judgmental and changed my attitude Find Sex Dates - looking for that addictive monogamy.

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